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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 13:03

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Has Great Britain ever been considered a "hyper-power" like the United States or Russia are currently considered? If not, why?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What does it mean when someone is pretending to be me?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

That's it for today.

What are the different celebrity lists (A-list, B-list, C-list, D-list)? How does one become a part of these lists and move up or down in status?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do Democrats call any Republican "Magats", like they are subhuman?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

How can one learn to talk frankly?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What's your review of the movie Poor Things?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What is chudai?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.